One of the things I love about planting a church is the ability to dream about possibilities.
The primary reason we all plant churches is often the same – so that we can make Christ known through word and deed in a new neighborhood. At the same time, another reason we plant churches is to make Christ known through word and deed in new ways in new neighborhoods.
There’s a thrill in being able to see God do a new thing, something that God is obviously accustomed to doing, as we can see in Scripture when He first created the world ex nihilo (out of nothing).
Now that we’re three years into starting our family of churches in New York City, one of the coolest things has been looking back and celebrating all that God has done because we took a step of faith when…
…we didn’t have any money (beyond our personal finances).
…we didn’t have any people (beyond our family).
…we didn’t have any gathering spaces (beyond our living room).
…we didn’t have an instagram account (because it wasn’t around then).
I remember very early on, one of the primary discernment questions I would ask was, “Can we do this?” As a dreamer, the answer I often leaned into was, “Yes, anything is possible with God on our side. We can do anything!”
Of course, God can certainly do anything–that’s why we say that God is omnipotent, a truth that can carry us in any dark day or season. However, the more I’ve asked the question about whether or not we can do this, the more I’ve realized that has been the wrong question for me and our team.
As a driven person with a verve toward faith–which most church planters can be–my natural tendency has been to push and work until whatever is dreamed about comes to fruition. These ambitions can easily be prodded further by the question, “Can we do this?”
I’ve noticed that the better discernment question for people like me is not a question of whether or not we can do something, but rather, whether or not we should do something.
In other words, I usually get so caught up in the possibilities that I forget to ask God what He thinks. Or, I forget to ask what my wife thinks (because these questions do affect her and our family too). Or, I forget to ask what our team thinks (because these questions do affect them and their families too).
This is not to say that challenging the status quo is a bad thing. This is simply to acknowledge that challenging the status quo for the sake of challenging the status quo is usually a bad thing.
I’ve come to realize that whenever I ask the question “Can we do this?”, I need to quickly follow up with the discernment question “Should we do this?” More often than not, I’ve been guilty of asking the first question without the latter question, and it hasn’t had the best implications for me, my family, or our team.
Ultimately, all of the above stems from a belief that ministry success is not measured by what we can do. Instead, I’m convinced that ministry success is measured by being faithful to what God has called us to do, which is essentially what we should do.